- Allow children to see the body, if it's appropriate and they're willing. They need to understand that while the body is left behind, the person has gone; to accept the reality of death, and to say goodbye. They may be upset, but it will give you a chance to comfort them, and talk about their fears. Our children have been privileged to see both birth and death: I hope this helps them appreciate the wonder and gravity of life, and to comfort others in the years ahead.
Saturday, June 7, 2008
children and death
I've added another point to my post on grieving and helping those who grieve. For those who've already read yesterday's post, here it is:
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Absolutely. Having experienced it, seeing the body is a hugely important aspect - in the right circumstances, as you say.
We have recently seen how Greek people grieve at our church. The whole family sees the body 3 times before it is buried and they spend lots of time in the home where the person died. They talk lots and cry lots. I think they could show our Australian culture a thing or two!
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